I have decided to put more effort into making my happy lists. I did it pretty frequently a few years ago and noticed a difference. Lately, I have been looking too closely at the negative parts of my life. Of course, there is always room for improvement, but when we become too focused on what needs to be better, we lose sight of the little details that really shape a life and make us happy. We miss the inspiration and only see the faults. So, here are a few things that make me happy:
1) My amazing, caring, and patient husband. It is so easy for partnerships to get weighed down by work, logistics, bills, etc. I have to remind myself to pause and appreciate. In fact, I want to focus less on my own stuff and start listening more to others. By listening more, I will also be acknowledging the other person's good qualities. Does that make sense? It's easy to get stuck in our own heads, but more rewarding to actively listen. I will try it this week!
2) As usual, I am looking forward to starting the garden. We got these cute seed packets to start our seedlings. My mom gave us a bunch of daffodil bulbs when we bought our home and I love seeing them come back each year. I put them in a vase on our dining room table and it's sort of like having her nearby.
3) More time outdoors! Now that the weather is getting warmer, we have been going on a weekly nature hike - even if it is just around the block. (It is really a mini-hike, because toddler legs can't go too far.) I like teaching Isa about nature. On a recent nature hike, she decided that acorn tops are really fairy hats. I love her imagination.
4) I am happy to live near a beautiful lake. Walking on the sand and hearing the waves is so calming. There is also a dog park section of the beach. I love watching the dogs run around and greet each other. They are so in the moment. A lot can be learned from them.